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| Writer | Julie Smith |
| Category | Self Development |
| Language | English |
| Publisher | Penguin Books |
| Publish Date | 2022 |
| Pages | 308 |
| File Size | 2 MB |
| File Type |
I’m sitting in my therapy room across from a young woman. She is relaxed in the chair, her arms open and loosely moving as she speaks to me—a transformation from the tension and nerves of her first session. We have only had a dozen appointments. She looks into my eyes and starts to nod and smile as she says, ‘You know what?
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before PDF – Julie Smith
I know it’s going to be hard, but I know I can do it.’ My eyes sting, and I swallow. The smile sweeps across every muscle in my face. She has felt the shi, and now so have I. She came into this room some time ago, fearful of the world and everything she had to face. Pervasive self-doubt led her to feel dread for every new change and challenge. Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before PDF
She left therapy that day with her head held a little higher. Not because of me. I have no magical ability to heal anyone or change their life. She had not needed years of therapy that unravelled her childhood. In this situation, as in many others, the major part of my role was as an educator.
I passed on insights about what the science says and what has worked for others. Once she understood and started using the concepts and skills, a transformation began. She felt hope for the future; she started to believe in her own strength. She started dealing with difficult situations in healthy new ways.
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before PDF – Julie Smith
Each time she did, confidence in her ability to cope grew a bit more. As we revisited the things she needed to remember in order to face the week ahead, she nodded, looked at me, and asked, ‘Why has nobody told me this before?’ Those words stayed with me, ringing in my head. Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before PDF
She was not the first or the last person to say them. The same scenario repeated itself over and over. Individuals were coming along to therapy believing that their strong, painful emotions were the result of a fault in their brain or personality. They did not believe they had any power to influence them.
While longer-term, more in-depth therapy is appropriate for some people, there were so many who simply needed some education about how their mind and body work and how they could manage their mental health day-to-day. I knew the catalyst was not me; it was the knowledge they were being introduced to.
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before PDF – Julie Smith
But people should not have to pay to come and see someone like me just to get access to that education about how their mind works. Sure, the information is out there. But in a sea of misinformation, you have to know what you are looking for. I started campaigning in my poor husband’s ear about how things should be different. ‘OK, go for it,’ he said. Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before PDF
‘Put some videos on YouTube or something.’ So we did. Together, we started making videos talking about mental health. As it turned out, I was not the only one who wanted to talk about this stuff. Before I knew it, I was making almost daily videos for millions of followers across social media. But the platforms where I could reach the most people seemed to be those with short-form videos.
This means I have a large collection of videos with no longer than 60 seconds to get my point across. While I have been able to catch people’s attention, share some insights, and get them talking about mental health, I still want to go one step further.
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before PDF
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